Hot women who auctioned their virginity

Every so often we get amazed by girls with amazing ASSets and wonder why they go so far as to auction their virginity. Recession, thrill, hoe or just for the excitement of knowing you can? Guys wish they could, girls do it. Here are the top 7 women who decide to go down for guap. 

Why do white girls like black men - Guide to Black men

In recent light of Ochocinco and his jumpoff(s) as well as many other silly findings. It leads to the very old question, why do white girls like black guys (or why do people think that). A trip to the mall could show the trend in at least 5% interracial couples, as well as teenage girls in high school and of course it depends on where you live. If you live in the city you will see more than that percentage and if you live in a small conservative area, you will see a very small percentage and perhaps none. So what is this allure and mysterious yearning black men have for white women?

One of the very many things black men think about white girls is that they easy, and don't have too many standards. Black women are seen as a challenge, and often times black men simply want a girl to get a nut off and not have to impress or put on a show, hence Ice T, Ochocinco etc, successful black men going after easier target. Most black men who go after white women don't have to be tall, built, overly good-looking , charismatic etc, they just have a good personality and are usually outgoing...sometimes. Most of the black guys that have great personality that attracts you to them. They tend to keep themselves busy and enjoy the time they have. Most people categorize black people as dangerous, thieves, murders, prostitutes, rapist, monkeys, money hungry, drug dealers and lazy. Black people themselves are just like any other human beings and for there is no problem in a white girl dating a black man.

Sex does NOT equal happiness study proves

An excellent post last week, detailed how afterall, a lot of sex happens to diminish, rather than boost our happiness. The article stated promiscuity is not associated with increased happiness and, in fact, the number of sexual partners needed to maximize happiness is exactly one.

It also put a clarity on the fact that everyone else is having less sex than most times we actually think. Everybody knew Trey Songz, and Drake were not getting that much play, although I think Lil Wayne is an exception to that research. Get this,the median adult American has sex  2 to 3 times a month. Even younger people, under forty, only have sex once a week, on average. Only 7% have sex more than 4 times a month and 18% have none at all. Students have less sex than others of the same age and married people have more.

All that for being single and ready to mingle. If we take the information we have on people’s lives and combine it with a subjective measure on well-being, researchers can make predictions on how sexual behavior influences individual happiness.

Other interesting facts were that younger people are happier in general, but not made any happier by having sex than older people are money may bring you happiness, but it won’t buy you more sex, homosexuals afterall aren't  gay in the literal sense of the word and the big knocker, people with more sexual partners are less happy than those who have just one.

figured id let the ladies have me promiscous

Another big one was that men who use prostitutes are also less happy. That is, promiscuous people are less happy and people who cheat in marriage (10% of the married people in the sample have had sex with more than one person in the previous year) are less happy

The award for most freaky, horny people - are not Americans (Disappointed) but Finland afterall!!! All that cold air gets them worked up and heated. 

Head on there to read more details on the research, kudos to that author, very indepth. 

20 shameful single girl habits you should know

A Player is not someone who gets theirs and leaves a trail of broken hearts. A Player is not someone who jumps from one shallow bed to the next. A Player is that person who lives life like a legend, puts a woman into a passionate romance and works his job like he built the company. This Player, in particular, has covered the globe as a photojournalist. Camera in one hand and laptop in the other; I’ve seen the best and the worst across time zones and international waters. In these travels, the foundations of how to play have been learned.

Our friends at Askmen dish out 20 of the most embarasing single girl habits

The New York Times discovered that single people do really quirky crap when they live alone. Stuff they’d be to embarrassed to do if anyone were watching. But no one is watching. So no one is judging. This allows Shameful Secret Single Behavior to fester and grow and become less appalling to the singleton as the years roll by. We can’t believe this. As single ladies, who have lived alone for long stretches of time, we are absolutely and thoroughly shocked to hear this. We have never done anything weird, all alone in our apartments while no one was watching, like sing Michael Jackson songs to our plants or strut around in a uniform of dirty hospital scrubs tucked into fuzzy socks. We jest. In fact, we feel fairly confident that we are the Queens of Single Quirk. But we’re not ashamed. No we are not. We’re proud, dammit. Here are our single behavior confessions.

1. Playing Tetris on the iPhone while watching The Real Housewives on TV

Obviously, this is about conflict resolution. The Real Housewives marathon is the conflict. The Tetris marathon is the resolution.

2. Making salad in a giant wooden bowl and using the bowl both for prep and eating to avoid washing an extra dish

It might look stupid. But the two minutes saved on washing extra dishes is worth it.

3. Rinsing dishes instead of using actual soap 

Speaking of dish doing… soap is overrated when you’re the only person who uses your dishes. Bask in your own germs.

4. Same for hand washing after using the bathroom. Waste of hand soap!

5. Eating straight out of the fridge or in bed with the laptop 

If you’ve recently wiped down your regular eating area, it’s dumb to get it dirty by taking yet another meal there… alone. Skip the kitchen and go straight from fridge to bed.

6. Drinking straight from the bottle

Drink Diet Coke straight from the plastic liter. Wine straight from the bottle. Milk straight from the carton.

7. Smushing the trash down further, to fit more garbage in, instead of taking it out

It doesn’t matter if your apartment smells like rotting spinach if you’re the only one who has to smell it. A candle or some room spray will cover that shit right up and you’ll live another day without having to go down four flights of stairs to the dumpster.

8. Spilling something on the counter and brushing it onto the floor

Coffee grinds, cereal crumbs, pistachio shells, all of it belongs on the kitchen floor where it blends into the ugly linoleum and gets stuck to the bottom of your fuzzy socks.

9. Wearing the same pair of socks multiple times

And even if the bottoms of those fuzzy socks are covered in coffee grounds, you can put off washing them for a while. A long while.

10. Using a towel for a really long time without washing it

Same goes for that face towel you’ve been using in the bathroom. You can flip it up to four times before every surface is covered in your mascara.

11. Boogers don’t really need to go in tissues

Boogers also can be wiped on walls, under beds, in the carpet. Boogers also like to be flicked. But don’t eat boogers. That’s truly gross.

12. Waiting to buy TP...

Until you’ve used every scrap of paper towel and napkin in the house. Boogers especially don’t go in tissues if you’ve been putting off your toilet paper run for a while. Because tissues are the same as toilet paper. Duh.

13. Leaving clumps of hair in the hairbrush

 As long at the bristles still run through your hair, you’re in business, Betty.

14. Taking a hell of a lot longer to wash period blood stained sheets than we care to admit

But, what the hell? We’re admitting it now. There is something comforting about sleeping in one’s own period stain. Reminds you that you’re still fertile, even if no one is “tapping that.”

15. Eating potato chips and onion dip for dinner

Tastes better if eaten at the fridge or in the bed with the laptop. We recommend following that up with pretzels dipped in peanut butter and Nutella for dessert. An entire meal without dishes!

16. Sleeping with a teddy bear
His name is Ralph. So what?

17. Cupping our bare breasts or vagina while watching TV

It just feels right.

18. Eating two dinners because the first one wasn’t very good so it didn’t really count

This will be highly unlikely if you ate potato chips and onion dip for dinner. That shit is satisfying.

19. Taking MySpace-style self portraits in the bathroom mirror

It’s important to commemorate these special single moments. Like celebrating an entire day of not using dishes or utensils. Or beating your own Tetris high score while watching The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills reunion special.

20. Listening to the same song on loop for five to six days in a row

And it doesn’t matter if it’s something uncool like Soul II Soul’s “Back to Life.” Your plants won’t mind one bit.

The 10 Commandments of Casual Sex

Max from Love & War brings 10 Rules for Casual Sex. 

As you guys know, I’m a big fan of casual sex. Not necessarily for me personally, but as a concept. Just had to make that clear. But what you might not know about me is that I am also a big fan of order and decorum. I believe that every situation is improved when everyone goes into it with a little bit of behaviour and respects the rules. But of course when hormones get involved everyone wants to get buck wild and just act any any all how (as my mum would say) and that’s how no-strings sex turns into a shit show.

So just as God had to step in and give the Israelites some instructions on how to conduct themselves, so must I tell you the proper way to behave in your jump off type relationships. So every Wednesday for the next 10 weeks I’ll bring you the 10 Commandments of Casual Sex. If you have suggestions for what the commandments should be, please send them to me via the contact link at the top right of the page,  because of course you know I haven’t written them all yet.

In the meantime, let’s get to the first commandment.

Commandment #1: Thou Shall Not Find Yourself Accidentally Exclusive

This is a common plight of the single woman. See, contrary to what certain male commenters of this site would have you believe, it’s not that easy for a woman to find a man with whom she can have great, bullshit free sex. So once she finds him, she makes it her business to repeat the experience as often as she can. Mr. Bullshit-free moves to the top of her iphone favourites list and that’s where she’s looking first when she starts to get that special feeling.

Sure there are other contenders vying for the opportunity to wax that ass, but most of them are coming at her with bullshit like flopping the show, half-stepping their way through sex, vanishing without a trace for long periods of time, shit like that. And while under normal circumstances she may be willing to endure a bit of bullshit if the end result is her getting her parts oiled, if she compares these dudes to Mr. No Bullshit, they fall way short. So of course she keeps going back to the good good and of course the more you fuck someone the better it gets, and next thing you know she’s having epic sex and tongue-tying orgasms on a regular basis with a man who behaves decently toward her.

This sounds like the holy grail of casual sex, doesn’t it? She’s getting fucked on a regular, the shit is amazing and it’s not even annoying. What more can a gal ask for?

The problem is though that while she’s been seeking out Mr. Sans Bullshit early and often, all the other contenders have drifted off. But she’s not worried about it because she has all the dick she needs in one place. Until the time comes when she wants to play and her favourite toy is not in the box and as she starts digging around for alternate sources of amusement she realizes the toy chest is empty. Now she’s frantically searching for something to entertain her and finds nothing. And then she’s mad.

What she forgot is that the essential nature of casual sex is its no obligation nature. At any moment in time a fuck buddy can wife another girl down, leave the country, turn gay contract an STD, or just get tired of fucking you and he’s under no obligation to tell you that it happened. So it’s not until you’re lying in bed with a throbbing pussy looking for someone to come over and stretch out your walls and drawing back a nub that you realize your number one primo source for cock has been shut down like your favourite store in Pacific Mall. Now she has to go on a scouting trip to the bush leagues to find a contender she can promote to the majors, and then she has to spend even more time training him until he can swing his bat like the last guy did.

The number one commandment of casual sex is never put all your nuts in one basket. You must diversify. I’m not suggesting that you take a different cock every day of the week, but if you have a favourite, you must also have at least one back up. You might not be giving the alternate dude pussy, but you have to give him something to make sure he doesn’t forget about you and, more importantly, to ensure he remains available to service you when your main dude is not readily available. Otherwise you will find yourself in a shitty situation like being 9 days away from your birthday with no available source for birthday ass, just to give you a random example.

So that’s the first commandment on my list, what do you guys think? Have you ever found yourself exclusively fucking someone you’re not in a relationship with? Have you been left high and dry by them? Speak on it in the comments.