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5 Ways to Calm Down an Angry Woman


Next time your little honeybee turns mad as a hornet, here's how to stop the buzzing before her fire turns to fight. You've already tried pretending to be invisible, right? How'd that work? 
Here are 5 helpful tips to calm your woman down when she starts . Courtesy: MensHealth mag


1. TUNE IN 
don't wait till swords are drawn. Like an orgasm, anger follows a bell curve—at the top you're completely out of your mind. So if you're seeing signs of frustration (a sigh or roll of the eyes), you'd better start listening quick, for the climax is near and things are about to go downhill fast. 

2. EYE LEVEL
The wife gets mad, the husband shuts down, the wife goes nuts. You shut down because you want to avoid a battle, but she thinks you're avoiding (here comes that dreaded word) intimacy.

3. SEE WHAT SHE SEES
acknowledge her perceptions as real. It shows that you respect her." Often, her anger is triggered because she believes something's 1) unfair, 2) out of her control, or 3) a personal attack. Address these concerns.


4. MAGIC WORDS
Yes, I agree. You're right. I'm sorry. Nothing disarms an attacker faster than taking her side. So find something, anything, to agree on. I don't suggest caving in, but find some small plot of common ground.

5. SET LIMITS
If her rage is a little too melodramatic, a little too frequent, a little too abusive, you want to give her exactly two chances to change



Yes, 1.5 million women are physically assaulted by their partners every year, but so are 835,000 men, according to the Centers for Disease Control.

1 comment:

  1. If I see a girl that's all upset an crying I just tell her to man the fuck up,and I'm a girl myself and I always tell an upset girl to man the fuck up and take things like a man would.

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