How does a man test a woman to see if she is the one?
How a man chooses a girlfriend or even advances her up the food chain to the status of fiancé or “wifey” is based upon a series of inner character traits men seek, often unconsciously. Below is a list of 50 character traits men use to choose the woman of their dreams.
Some qualities come naturally to some women and cannot be obtained or even learned; this makes these qualities extremely valuable and deserving of a maximum score. These fine points often make the difference in choosing one woman over another. The wise man considers whether or not the woman comes by these characteristics naturally. Although it is true that some qualities can be developed over time and with maturity, experience teaches a man to accept a woman for who she is right now and not who he hopes her to become later. He will see that either a woman has these qualities naturally within her, or not. Even though everyone, if he or she has the desire, has the ability to evolve into a better person, a man can never force a woman to make a change in herself based only on his desire. For a man, it is wiser to follow the golden rule and either accept a woman as she comes to him or leave her where he met her.
That said, rate yourself first, and then allow your man or perspective love interest to rate you. Combine the two scores, divide by two and add up the points and see where you fall on the score chart. Do not share your score with your man until he has finished the test. Allow him to be open and honest. Use the results as a positive way to improve yourself, thus improving your relationship. See the score chart at the end of the article.
Give yourself from one to four points, four being the highest, on each quality listed below:
1. Honesty
2. Reliability
3. Good personal hygiene
4. Supportiveness
5. High sexual energy
6. Goal-driven
7. Desire to procreate
8. Good health and fitness
9. Spirituality
10. Creativity
11. Team player
12. Thriftiness
13. Drug-free
14. Patience
15. Self-control
16. Good education
17. Perseverance
18. Well-traveled
19. Good sense of humor
20. Good relationship with father
21. Affection
22. Good listening skills
23. No jealousy issues
24. Can be happy by yourself
25. Virtuousness
26. Altruism
27. Good communication skills
28. Non-conformism
29. Unspoiled
30. Spontaneity
31. Consistency
32. Ability to work hard
33. Adventurousness
34. Trustworthiness
35. Inner beauty
36. Would you tell your man if his best friend hit on you? (One for “no,” four for “yes”)
37. Table manners
38. Politeness
39. How often do you borrow things and not return them? (One for “always,” four for “never”)
40. How often do you tell somebody you are going to do something and then not do it? (One for “always,” four for “never”)
41. Willingness to compromise
42. Is it okay to lie sometimes? (One for “yes,” four for “no”)
43. Would you marry a man with kids? (One for “no,” four for “yes”)
44. Good money management
45. Not a shopaholic
46. Thankfulness
47. Uncomplaining
48. Ability to admit when wrong
49. Willingness to apologize
50. Ability to cook
Score chart
115 -130 points = 75-85 percent = Girlfriend material. You still have some work to do.
130-145 points = 85-90 percent = Fiancée material. Looking good
145-160 points = 90-100 percent = You are there girl, now close the deal!
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